#SexonSundays

Sex after baby. Let’s just go ahead and acknowledge that both parties are usually a bit terrified 😱😱😱 or at least worried it will never be the same. 

It probably won’t be. But guess what? That doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Many times sex just might be BETTER. 

Here’s a few tips for creating some first time again 💥MAGIC💥
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And let’s share this far and wide so partners can know how making mama happy will make everybody happy 😉

1. Start with a strong body image. Partners you can totally help here! Our bodies go through MASSIVE changes and we just feel different....and like milk cows 🐄 frankly if we are breastfeeding....and a hot (literally hot 🥵 not haute) mess of spit up and beyond. 

Compliment us. Tell us how beautiful we look - but don’t say something ridiculous like how skinny we look or we will discount all further attempts at flattery. Instead help us see our body in a new beautiful light. Compliment it’s strength and womanliness. Do it honestly and not for the self gain of shortening the time to “return to play”. And ladies when you look in the mirror and you want to criticize every flaw, remember you just amazed your partner by what that body could do whether you labored and pushed out a baby or had a major surgery and still rose to the occasion of becoming a mother. And that’s really sexy. Because strength is sexy. And your strong body just created and delivered human life into the world. The extra roll here and there doesn’t matter in the least to your partner (and if it does have them comment below if they are brave enough! 😉) But despite this pep talk if you are still having body issues talk to your partner! Communication is key. Show them this post. Work on it together. And if you are still feeling so self conscious you can’t enjoy yourself- talk to your doctor. 

2. Stay tuned for more tips on #sexonsundays 😉